Discord Ban Appeal Don Fluffles

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(1) Discord Name & ID (EX: JohnSmith#4444): - Spoopius Maximus#0903

(2) Which Discord were you banned from? - Halo rp

(3) What is the name of the Staff Member who banned you? - Lexa.

(4) Have you been banned on any SBS server or platform before? If so, approximately how many times? - No, I have not been banned on any other SBS server.

(5) Have you been banned within the last week? - No I have not.

(6) Why were you banned in this instance? (Explain in Detail) - I was banned for posting suicidal transgender memes as well as, no father figure memes. This was a stupid attempt to get a reaction out of a already pressured Lexa. I was in a vc, and I thought it would be extremely funny to do so. Thinking back on it now, I was really just trying to get acceptance and laughs out of the people around me. And while I did get the laughs I had wanted in the first place, it led to me being permabanned from the community that I had wanted to play with. I then tried to go onto an alt account and then look at the discord, I didn't ever intend to post anything in there, I merely just wanted to know when events were going on so that I could still play with people, because I wasn't banned from the gmod server. I don't know if I am banned from the gmod server, but I doubt it. Now that I think about it, it was just a hasty attempt to get back into contact with the people I liked to talk with on the server, and it was a very bad step to take. Especially since it had the same name as my main account. I didn't have any malicious intent by putting my alt account in there, I only wanted to talk to people on the server.

(7 ) Do you think you deserved the ban? - While, I don't think I deserved a permaban, I do understand why I was banned. Getting a reaction out of someone by posting harmful and idiotic memes is the wrong way to do things, and I have thought about what I should have done to prevent myself from going that far again. 

(8) Why should you be unbanned? - As I stated in number eight, I have thought about ways to prevent this from happening, and I don't ever intend to go that far again. Posting transgender suicide memes was wrong, and I should have never done it in the first place. I understand if you think that I haven't waited long enough to come back to the community, and I will wait longer the next time I make a ban appeal.

(9) Have you learned your lesson from this ban? - After a bit of self reflectance and not really playing on gmod for extended periods of time, I think that I've become more thoughtful in how other people might react to what I say or do, and I also do think that I have improved in my mannerisms, I've had time to think about what I did wrong, and how I really should have taken actions to prevent what I did from happening, such as not posting those memes, or not even humoring them at all. At the time I thought they were really funny memes, and I did it to get a stupid reaction that got me banned from a community that I enjoyed talking to. I understand that you may feel indifferent or flat out dislike me for what I did, but I would like to have a chance to socialize with the community again.

(10) If you are able to provide a screenshot of the reasoning of the ban, please post it here: -

For Question 3, you can also tag the Staff Member who banned you so they can receive an immediate notification. To do this, type the: "@" symbol and the name of the staff member after it. If you are not sure who the staff member is on the forums, just list their in-game name, and Forum Staff/Server Staff will tag that staff member!
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#2
Bruh what the hell? You should stay banned, your reasons to why you did it are bullshit and you do not deserve to be a part of the community.

Holy Shit

@@Skinsfan5 First off, you made a ban appeal so even if I do not know (and I do not want to), you will receive feedback from the community including me, and my feedback is: I do not want you back on the discord server, the memes you used and your attitude towards my feedback in this ban appeal tells me you have not learned your lesson.

I do not care if I have nothing to do with the situation, this is a community forum and if you dont like to receive a -1 then not my problem, you should not have been breaking the rules in the first place.

What you did was messed up and you should wait more time before being unbanned from the discord server!

A huge -1 for anything. I reiterate again: you do not deserve to be a part of this community

Still does not onvince me of your honesty, it sounds like bullshit to me, you knew what you were doing and you just using the sleeping schedule to justify your actions. Did you think about the people offended by your memes? Probably not, like I said, stay banned and re-appeal in a couple of weeks.

@@Edgar Nova As someone who applied to be a staff member not so long ago, you should know not to start drama in others threads and make unrelated comments. Either way dont mind Mr
 Edgar Nova, he is a drama queen

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(03-14-2022, 07:41 PM)John Wave Wrote: Bruh what the hell? You should stay banned, your reasons to why you did it are bullshit and you do not deserve to be a part of the community.

Holy Shit



You know nothing about me, how I act, how I talk, how I respond to others. You don't know my mannerisms or anything about me. Yet you decide to make this quick judgement despite having nothing to do with the situation.
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#4
+1

As someone who knows Rita and plays with him regularly, he has clearly learned from this situation and has shown remorse about the situation. While what he did was messed up he knows how deeply wrong it was now and simply wishes to go back to talking to people on the discord.

#5
(03-14-2022, 07:41 PM)John Wave Wrote: Bruh what the hell? You should stay banned, your reasons to why you did it are bullshit and you do not deserve to be a part of the community.

Holy Shit

@@Skinsfan5 First off, you made a ban appeal so even if I do not know (and I do not want to), you will receive feedback from the community including me, and my feedback is: I do not want you back on the discord server, the memes you used and your attitude towards my feedback in this ban appeal tells me you have not learned your lesson.

I do not care if I have nothing to do with the situation, this is a community forum and if you dont like to receive a -1 then not my problem, you should not have been breaking the rules in the first place.

What you did was messed up and you should wait more time before being unbanned from the discord server!

A huge -1 for anything. I reiterate again: you do not deserve to be a part of this community


Your first reply wasn't even feedback, it was just calling my mistakes bullshit, while I don't normally post trans-gender suicidal memes, I was on a shitty sleep schedule back then. People who have less than 3 hours of sleep tend to not make the best calls. You can say these reasons are bullshit, but most of these reasons in combination with a 15 year old looking for acceptance online in his group of peers can really cloud their judgement. You may have what ever opinion you want of me, but of course I am going to defend my argument. I'm trying to get unbanned from the Halo RP discord server and gmod server, not looking for acceptance from anyone anymore. I enjoy spending time with the people in the HaloRP community, I enjoy spending time on the server and playing the content they make. I reiterate again: You know nothing about me, what I've done, or what I've even said. Making generalizations about me doesn't help anyone in any way.
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-snip- (edwin) Anyways, +1. Seems like a genuine appeal, not trying to make excuses for it. And seem to actually own up to it. Worst case scenario is it happens again and then that ban never goes away. GL

@@John Wave who hurt you lmao. Always so angry now. Also I applied a year ago, actually almost to the day a year ago. Wouldn't call that recent
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#7
@Lexa this man has been waiting for over a month
"im a little fat girl that likes bologna and Taco Bell"
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#8
TY Mike

This ban was something I was very much on the fence about. On the one hand, I like to give second chances, and I prefer to give less punishment if I am in any way effected by the offense, but on the other hand, giving you more chances in the interests of redemption has to be set against the right of trans players on Halo to not be discommoded by your hateful views. Whilst I understand and accept that there has to be some amount of ability to trash me, it can't extend to permitting the normalization of violent revelry against a protected class, if that makes sense.

I can only really say this once, because in the future you can performatively dodge this point, but it probably should be said at least once that you aren't sorry that you hold these ideas. You are sorry that you went too far in expressing them, and were permabanned for it.

I'm very divided by the idea that there may be some period of time after which it would be reasonable to unban you, because I don't like discounting the concept of forgiveness and second chances (even in a gmod server, where being unbanned is almost inconsequential) but I also don't know if there's a way for you to change, and prove that you won't be a risk. I guess this can be revisited when you next appeal, for now at least the appeal is denied, however I'm not certain that there ever will be a fair resolution to that problem.

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